Cry Me A River, Magen McMinimy

Dear Magen,

Surprise.

There is a review on GoodReads, no, not going to link to it  that is a 1 star (of course) that has started a minor kerfuffle. It’s not a bad review, it certainly wouldn’t discourage me from reading the book if it interested me but it seems that the reviewer was given an ARC and because she had a large TBR pile she gave it to her husband to read. From her posts it seems that she does this once in a while. After a hundred pages the husband threw in the towel and said it just didn’t work for him and gave reasons.

I am not one of those people that believe that you HAVE to read an entire book before you are allowed to give it 1 star. Indeed, I think that more 1 stars would be less critical if readers just stopped a hundred pages in. I am here to tell you that if I read an entire really bad book and didn’t enjoy it you are going to know why-in great detail.

“I  understand what the author was trying to achieve here but the different elements of the story just did not mesh well at all. Eventually I might get around to finishing the book, but as or now, it’s just not for me.” Now that wasn’t so bad, was it? It actually sounds like there is a chance the reviewer will go back and give it another try. It wouldn’t discourage me from reading the book if it interested me.

Enter Natalie, who plainly doesn’t appreciate this review-at all. “Boooo!! I can’t get over the fact that you are having your husband write a review for you. Ugh..  This book rocked and I don’t think your husband would know the difference between a good or bad book. As a reviewer, if my review pile is too big, I simply wait until I have the time to really pay attention to the book.  Therefore, I do believe you need to not have such a big review pile.  It just doesn’t do any book any kind of justice, whether it is a good or bad book.    These authors bust their butts for readers.  We need positive energy to go into reviews. Now I feel like I have wasted my awesome writing skills upon someone that didn’t even finish the book!”    

I have to wonder if Natalie is more upset about the reviewer’s husband not liking the book, or is possibly jealous that the reviewer has a TBR pile bigger than her own, or ” Now I feel like I have wasted my awesome writing skills upon someone that didn’t even finish the book!” , What? Wasted her writing? Is there something I’m missing?

Now enter Magen who posts, “You go (removed the name of the above commenter)! As an author I’m irritated by this simply because I would rather know that someone who reviewed my book actually read it and didn’t pass it off to their mate. I’ve waited months for reviews and was confident that my book was given the time it deserved. This book is on my TBR list and it will absolutely remain there and you can bet that when I get to it I will review it after FINISHING it.”

Can you guess what happens next? Of course you can. Magen got some not too polite and definitely pithy comments. Then she decided to delete her post. Then she decided to blog about it.

“A few months back I was checking out some reviews of a book I just received from a giveaway. I noticed a 1-star review which grabbed my attention, I tend to read poor reviews before the shiny 5-stars. This Blogger who was given an ARC of the book, didn’t even read it, she gave the book to her husband to read and review for her, who also didn’t read the book but gave it a 1-star review.”

Yeah, as I pointed out the reviewer’s husband clearly stated, ” I ended up only getting about one hundred pages into it and could go no further with it.”  I suppose that Magen could have made a mistake when she wrote that he didn’t read it but I suppose that it could also be that it makes for a better blog if the reviewer didn’t read the book he 1 starred.

Now Megan is having a hard week and a hard time because she didn’t attack anyone. Really. All she did was agree with another poster. You remember the other poster, Natalie, who said the reviewer’s husband wouldn’t know a good book from a bad, who lectured the reviewer for having a too big TBR pile (What is too big? Can you ever have too many books to read?), who chastised the reviewer for not giving positive energy to the author, who says she feels she wasted her awesome writing skills (I still don’t understand this). No, Magen, you’re absolutely right, agreeing with this isn’t you attacking the reviewer, not at all.  (eyeroll)

What Magen doesn’t understand is that is exactly what she said/did when she said you go. That she then went on to babble about waiting for reviews doesn’t negate what she agreed to. It is always damned discouraging that writer’s seem to have so little comprehension of what they write.

Anyway, the posts on the review degenerated into a very impolite back and forth between those who thought poor Magen had just expressed her opinion and those that thought Megan had stuck both feet in her mouth at the very least. “Again I am human and perhaps this is not a smart post, but I am hurt, I am pissed for how I was treated, for how the others were treated.” But that doesn’t apply to the reviewer and her husband, that doesn’t apply to how you treated them? Do I have to repeat what you agreed with, Magen? “Now this one caught my attention because I agreed with what she had to say.” You agreed. To it all. Because if you didn’t agree with all of it, where did you say it?

Maybe this is a case of “you know what I meant”, and, no, I don’t. I can only know what you write and you wrote you agreed with Natalie.  “I didn’t realize I was doing that, agreeing with someone else means I was personally berating her.” Um, yeah, that’s how it works.   “Yet I don’t think professionalizm has anything to do with it, this was my opinion on something that had nothing to do with my writing, I probably shouldn’t have mention the fact that I was an author I was just stating my opinion from a different perspective then the others.” Let me bang my head on my desk for a while. Professionalism, than. Spellcheck, please. And don’t, just don’t, cry that this is your personal blog. It’s out there for everyone to read, it is a reflection of you, of your writing. It’s not a great reflection because spellcheck isn’t the only thing it’s in need of.

Professionalism isn’t just when you want it to be, Magen. In fact, I don’t think professionalism is what you define it to be.

“So I am sorry if this offended anyone.” How long have you been writing? If you really, really, really want to offend people this is guaranteed to do just that. IF? Oh, Magen, I can positively state that you offended someone. No ifs about it and if (!) you had been paying attention then you would know that “if I offended” is a weasel. Nobody likes a weasel (except the person trying it).

So, Magen, yes, you got smacked around. Did you deserve it? Yes and no. Should you be able to figure out why? Oh, yes. “Ultimately I regret saying anything. This was blown out of proportion. Anyone who knows me knows I am not out to hurt anyone, I am sincere and honest, and I am not looking to start any fights.” You didn’t regret it enough to not blog about it.  Out of proportion, well, you’re a writer who can’t figure out what you agreed with and why that offended some posters. Sincere and honest? Jury’s out on that. No, no fights, just a blog trying to find people to defend you.

I, too, am honest and sincere. Anyone who is really this dumb can’t possibly write a book I can appreciate.

Sincerely

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